Baby Baby Baby
Here I am, new to LA. Open and willing to try new things, including dating. Yep, dating. And my first date in LA was very wacky.
This guy, who will remain anonymous, proceeded to call me baby countless number of times on the phone and on the date. Whatever possesed me to give him my phone number, who knows? I did.
We decided to meet on a Tues evening for dinner. Being that I'm new to LA, I was open to any suggestions he had. He picked the place. A Mexican resturant, which he proceeded to tell me once I arrived, that he doesn't really like Mexican food. Hello....you picked the resturant?!?
Whatever! While we were eating, he was doing most of the talking. He spoke of the workout he had earlier and how is legs were killing him and why this Mexican resturant was the it place to be in LA all while he continuously called me "baby".
I noticed whenever I spoke about anything of relevance, he checked out...to where, who knows; however, when I made the conversation about him, he loved it. I said " you look familiar to me" he mentioned he was once on a reality television show (yipee). "No" I said, "That's not it".
Finally, the check arrived. He asked "Do you want to come over, I have all the movie channels?" to which I replied "So do I, so no thank you". As we were leaving the table he said "Let me hug you, I want to feel your body"... WHAT!!!?? Did I hear what I thought I heard?
He walked me to my car, and said "Are you just afraid to come over to my place because of what might happen?" to which I replied "Yea, that's it!!! goodnight".
My first date in LA....welcome to LA.
posted by Tam-a-Lamb @ 6:07 PM
5 Comments:
Why do men what your body as payment for a meal, when they invited you in the first place? Its ridiculoso!
Why oh why did you leave NY girl?!! Sorry to tell you darling, but LA men are the wackest. Why do you think I moved 3,000 miles away from the left coast? That is just a taste of what is to come. Pleeease be careful! Lol! As I know you will.
Wishing you all the best!
- Onye
Hey Tamalam!!!
Girl, I hadn't had a real date in sooooo long. But I do remember one of my first ones.
Dude had a classic car, like a 57 caddy..well, something w/fishtails, it needed a little body work, but cool. Got in the car...how bout i had a real up close & personal view of I-20 through THE HOLE IN THE FLOOR!!!
yep, sure did.
Ok, here's one for the archives...
He asked me to meet him at his place... so I did. Then he said his car was blocked in so could we take my car. He picked the restaurant and then did not like anything on the menu so he had them make a special order... at the end of the meal he realized he forgot to bring his wallet so I had to pay. I decided I didn't like any of the movies that were showing and took him back to his place. I told him I felt like I might becoming down with the flu so... any contact would be bad... as I drive away feeling lucky to get away I notice a bunch of stuff stacked out on the street that wasn't there before.
Later on that evening he called and said that the people he was staying with put all of his belongings out on the grass and could he come and stay with me & would I come back and pick him and all his stuff up also I should bring some boxes.....?
I then told him I thought my "husband" might have a problem with that... heheheh (..well my future husband would)
Yep....welcome to L.A. sunshine :)
Who are you dating?! As an LA man, I have to stand up for us. While LA does have it's challenges, there are still good people here and bad like anywhere else. It is important to look at why you said yes to a man without taking a deeper look, that might account for some of the issues you encounter.
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